Everyone does it, and if they say they don't they're lying. It's a sacred thing. - Britney Spears

Monday, 30 April 2012

Masturbation's Lonely Hearts Club Band

Misplaced feelings of guilt and inadequacy are among the many factors that inhibit open discussion about human sexual wants and desires. Admitting to activities like masturbation - or browsing the adult personals as another example - give rise to anxieties associated with precisely such feelings of inadequacy and failure. Then there is the perceived peril that world of adult classifieds are a mere fig leaf for something as crude and basic as the 'cash nexus' represented by the adult services industry.

Dating.com is a website that provides an informed view on topics such as How to read and understand an escort ad as well as Escort terms, sex definitions and abbreviations in escort ads. Next time you are feeling inclined to go in search of a fellow 'lonely heart', at least you will be able to do so equipped with a certain knowledge.

Whatever happens we hope you find love - or failing that, someone who loves masturbation at least as much as you do.


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Tuesday, 24 April 2012

Masturbation and Sexual Repression - the taboo of loneliness

Social taboos can have an almost pernicious effect. The anti-social status which they confer upon the target of their opprobrium is self-reinforcing. Taboos generally lead to stigma and isolation and no more so where a sexual taboo is concerned. Resort is had to fantasy and self-repression, but like a drug, it only masks the effect, wearing off over time anyway.

Fantasy shouldn't harm anyone as long as it is knowledge-based. But a fantasy which one cannot share can be detrimental unless a social outlet can be found. Persons seeking casual encounters with male escorts or female escorts are caught up in this taboo world. A new website, adult friend finder, examines such taboos in their social origins and historical development. We cannot say that we endorse its findings. We would suggest however that it serves to educate and inform. The decision which you make is yours and yours alone.

Kind of makes you feel lonely and isolated, doesn't it?


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Saturday, 7 April 2012

Masturbation and Religion - what Tibetan Buddhism can teach us

For millions of people, every day, masturbation represents by far the most satisfying means of exorcising one's 'hungry ghosts'. Practitioners of Tibetan Buddhist religion however have developed their own methods.

Tingshas are small cymbals, joined together by a single leather strap, which produce a clear, long-lasting, high pitched tone when struck together. They are used for meditation, in musical recordings, even at the start and end of yoga sessions.

Their real function however is as a religious ritual tool such as offerings to hungry ghosts - a concept used in Tibetan Buddhism to describe acts of futilely attempting to fulfill illusory physical desires; which, let's be honest, describes masturbation to a 'T'.


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